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i'm 15 next month ..... my parents have been seperated for 11 years and theyere sevorce was finalised when i was in 6 th class 3 yrs ago ..... my dad moved away 256 km away actually ... he was gone for a while and i didnt know if he was dating .. if he was in rehab for his alocoholism or if he was dead .. i honestly thought he might have bin .. but one day after school he just tuened up .. i noticed a ring on one of his fingers that looked kinda new but it said love on it i asked could i look at uit .. and on the indide i read PETER ++ REGINA ..... he says to me reginas the person i'm dating well actually shes mt fiancé ..... your gona be a bridesmaid ... right ?.....  i didnt have any idea what to say to that .. since ive only ever seen my parents happy and not fighting once or twice ... when i was  in hospital and didnt want me to see tham figting ,.... i went to the weeding and got prety shook up about it .. i cried alot that day but when my dad came over or my stepmum i just said I'M JUST HAPPY FOR YOUS ...... but my granny on my dads side knew i was upset so she got my aunt to bring me for a drive to get outa there ..... 

i still dont like the fact that he re married .. 



but i love her daughter shes lovely... shes absolutly awesome .....her parents have had ... problems too ..

i was upset ovr christmas and my year head has aske me to go to the counciller .... should i go ??


thanks peoples if youve read this .... <3
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anne07213
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Time:2008-02-09 01:57 am (UTC)
My mom offered to bring me to a counselor when my parents divorced, and looking back on it, I wish I had. If you feel like you need to talk to someone and you feel like you can completely open up to your friends or someone else in your family, great. If you feel like you need to talk to someone and you want to talk to someone who is objective and completely removed from the situation, try a counselor. It took me two months to open up to my closest friends and tell them my parents were getting a divorce, and another two months to finally tell the rest of my friends. I really think that if I had talked to a counselor, it would have made it a lot easier to talk about it with other people.
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