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i'm 15 next month ..... my parents have been seperated for 11 years and theyere sevorce was finalised when i was in 6 th class 3 yrs ago ..... my dad moved away 256 km away actually ... he was gone for a while and i didnt know if he was dating .. if he was in rehab for his alocoholism or if he was dead .. i honestly thought he might have bin .. but one day after school he just tuened up .. i noticed a ring on one of his fingers that looked kinda new but it said love on it i asked could i look at uit .. and on the indide i read PETER ++ REGINA ..... he says to me reginas the person i'm dating well actually shes mt fiancé ..... your gona be a bridesmaid ... right ?.....  i didnt have any idea what to say to that .. since ive only ever seen my parents happy and not fighting once or twice ... when i was  in hospital and didnt want me to see tham figting ,.... i went to the weeding and got prety shook up about it .. i cried alot that day but when my dad came over or my stepmum i just said I'M JUST HAPPY FOR YOUS ...... but my granny on my dads side knew i was upset so she got my aunt to bring me for a drive to get outa there ..... 

i still dont like the fact that he re married .. 



but i love her daughter shes lovely... shes absolutly awesome .....her parents have had ... problems too ..

i was upset ovr christmas and my year head has aske me to go to the counciller .... should i go ??


thanks peoples if youve read this .... <3
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Time:2008-02-08 11:08 pm (UTC)
If you feel like you need to go to the counselor, go. I went to a counselor after my parents separated and it helped me alot. I had talked to my friends about my parents separating, but they weren't able to help me a lot since all their parents are still together. My counselor really just listened a lot at first when I could really just vent everything I was feeling. Barbara (my counselor) helped me a lot dealing with my parents (she helped me to start talking to my mom about how I was feeling and such) and she helped with other problems that I had to deal with with friends. After my experience, I think everybody could use a talk with a counselor in their life just becuase it gives you someone to really talk to without them judging you and it's good to get advice from someone outside of your problems. If you're still unsure, just think, it doesn't hurt to go, right?
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